Friday, September 5, 2008

clean up in aisle 5

I'm not totally sure what I am supposed to write about but I was watching the office today, not sure if anyone else watches that but I really really like it and I noticed something that kinda sorta related to our acting class. one of the characters pretended to pull the pin out of a grenade and throw it at another, the character that it would have hit picked up some paperclips at the correct moment and threw them in the air, it was special and funny. I suppose they are professional actors that have no doubt already taken acting for non-majors and got an A. plus.

The Horror!

While I am writing this I am watching a REALLY old horror movie ( it was made in the 40's) with my friends. I know that people complain about the quality of the acting in movies today, but judging from this movie, the acting was no better back then. This movie reminds me of a bad high school play. All the actors are trying to show what they are doing rather than being real. Now that I am focusing on it, it is really getting on my nerves. As far as plot goes, the movie is interesting, but I don't believe any of it becuase of the crappy acting. There are occasional moments where the acting is not so bad, usually when the characters are not speaking. The dialogue is especially stilted.

about class

Thursday's class was interesting and a good learning experience for me, seeing first hand with a diverse style of exercise, humor, and knowledge is a good method of molding or building a relax and team work like atmosphere and that this technique can bring a group of diverse personalities on board for a common cause. The mirror exercise is a tool or technique that could be very beneficial in my field of work (CTRS) not only with my clients but also with staff /team building exercises.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

eating in convo

While eating in convo, I watched a couple of people eat their meals. As I watched one person, I noticed that they always took a sip of their drink after every bite. It wasn't a big sip, it was just a very little sip. I also saw that the person would always lean towards the table when they went to take a bite. The person's chewing was kind of weird. It looked as if their mouth was moving side to side. And finally, I noticed that for some reason they were eating their ice cream with a fork. That suprised me a bit.
I actually watched people eat in the Eagle's Nest which made it pretty hard because I'm not very discrete and it was hard to watch people eat without totally staring at them. But I figured it out after a minute or two and I decided to watch a group of three girls while they ate and carried on a conversation. After watching people pretend to eat in class it was really funny to notice little details while people ate real food. For example, I noticed that they talked more than they ate; they would take a bite or a sip of something then put it down and continue talking. Then I remembered that in class when we were pretending to eat everyone did it really fast, it was like there was no break from eating and most people hardly chewed anything. While I was watching the girls I paid special attention to how long they chewed their food.....it was way longer than I pretended to chew on Tuesday. Clearly I was just swallowing my food in gigantic chunks.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Watching someone eat.

At first I felt pretty awkward as I watched someone eating from across the room. As he ate for about the first few minutes he didn't have much to say, however, once he got some food down his eating became slower and slower as he was more concerned with the conversation around him. He took really big bites and also was talking with large amounts of food in his mouth. At first he was really hunched over his plate really concentrating on his food but as time went on he would slowly sink back into his chair not really interested in his food anymore. He also seemed to chew really fast as he was about to say something.

Eatin' Folk

I managed to sneak some stares at three people who were eating, two of whom were in conversation and one that was listening and eating. Eating is a more violent act when it is done between sentences, and it is done almost subconsciously. The people I watched were not focused at all on their eating, and the more engaged listener seemed far more engaged with her friends than she was with her bowl of soup. The one girl I was watching was eating more properly than the other two, and that is more of what I would associate with eating alone, careful and more aware of herself.

Eating in Convo

Today i observed 3 guys eating at a round table during lunch today.  They seemed to be close friends from the way they interacted.  They talked while they were eating and didn't seem to have any manners while eating.  I felt this was very typically of college boys. 

Observing Someone Eating

I observed a blonde guy sitting at a table across from me eating today at lunch (around 1pm or so). He was eating chicken for lunch with chocolate milk. He ate with his fingers and did not use any silverware. He was sitting at the table with 3 other people, one being another guy and the other two being girls. With the way he was interacting, it seemed that these people were his close friends. He seemed very talkative with the table and seemed to talk more than eat. Out of all the people at the table, he talked the most. He would take a few bites, chew, swallow, and then start joking (or what I assumed to be joking, since there was much laughing) around with the people at the table again. He sat a bit hunched over his plate but did not ever have his elbows on the table. He was also smiling for most of the time I observed them.

Eating

Eating dinner at convo

I watch a group of four girls eating dinner. The first thing i noticed was one of the girls would put her fork down after every bite. Also another girl would wipe her face after every bite. And the last girl kind of shoved her food into her mouth. I did notice that all the girls talked a lot while eating. It seemed as though one girl would talk as the others were eating and once she was done another would strike up a conversation while the others ate. So it seemed to switch roles so that it gave them time to eat as well. I also noticed that all the girls did lean over their plates while they ate. So i noticed a lot of different things within the five minutes of watching them eat.

View eating at convo

This assignment was completed during my lunch today. Over to my left about 11 o'clock angle, there were three ladies having their lunch together. Throughout most of the time the ladies ate quietly using very little movement while eating. 2 out of 3 of the ladies were sitting with their legs cross while the other young lady sat on her left leg throughout lunch. they were sitting straight up in their chairs, all using their right hand to feed themselves, so their left side of the body had very little or no action while they ate. Conversation did not pick up their pace as far as body language is concerned. As the young ladies continued to enjoy each other’s company and fine meal, one could sense they are a close knit group of friends, simply by enjoying each other’s presence, they had over five minutes of complete comfortable silence. Once they started to talk to each other had their own turn to talk, they never talk over each other, it seemed as if they were actively listening to one another.

Watching someone eat

I secretly watched a girl eat lunch in Convo the other day. She had a salad and a pulled pork sandwich. Overall she seemed to have pretty good manners. She took small bites and chewed with her mouth closed. She was sitting with another girl and they were occasionally talking, but they both seemed too tired to carry on much of a conversation. As this girl ate, she leaned over her plate so she did not get any food on her. Also, she licked her lips pretty often, which I found pretty disgusting in all honesty. The way that she was eating her food, she seemed like she was not even that hungry. She played with her salad using her fork to mix it around, but did not really even eat it. She was a very slow eater. One thing that I noticed through watching this girl eat, as well as scoping out others enjoying lunch, that we did not do in class when imagining we were eating was open our mouths big enough. I do not think that we would have actually been able to fit the food in our mouths without getting it all over our faces.

watching people eat food

I watched a person eating this morning in convo. I was pretty far away, but I think she was eating hash browns or something and then a banana. The girl was sitting by herself and staring off into space. She chewed beautifully with her mouth closed most of the time. I noticed that when we were in class we mostly grabbed our imaginary forks like neanderthals while most people hold a fork like they would a pen. (this girl did at least). She drank her milk lazily and made it look so easy, maybe this was because she did not have to imagine the weight of the glass. She looked up as she chewed but down when she went for another bite. It got weird when we made eye contact, so thats where it ended. creeptastic

watching people eat

I watched two people eat breakfast this morning. It was very early in the morning( around 7) and most people were not very animated at this time of day. There is much more eating than talking going on. The two people that I observed have been eating breakfast at the same time as me, at the same table, almost every day for three years now. I am pretty sure they are a couple. They don't speak a lot, but they don't seem to mind. They read the paper rather than watch the tv like most people are doing. They eat slowly, without making a lot of extra movements. The guy slouches over his plate a little, but the girl's posture is basically upright.

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Watching People Eat

On a side note, it is pretty strange watching a group of individuals eat.... Anyway, there are a few things that I noticed. For one, the people at the start of dinner eat rather quickly and seem to slouch to eat. There is very little proper manners taking place at the table. Another thing that was rather interesting is how often people move around their plates while eating their meal. They may spin the same plate three or four times just to get to a different food type. I would assume that they don't want to spill food or maybe they just are lazy and don't want to have to reach across their plate to get the other side dishes.

I also just wanted to show why the Yankees and Boston should always win:
1. NY Yankees 207,108,489
2. NY Mets 137,391,376
3. Detroit 137,290,196
4. Boston 133,220,112
5. Chicago Sox 121,189,332







15. Cleveland 78,970,066
30. Florida 22,650,000

Go Marlins

Watching Someone Eat

For this assignment I watched two girls eating lunch in convo. The girls were at a big booth and they sat directly across from each other. For the most part the girls had bored looks on their faces. They would pick up their silverware, take a bite of food, and put the silverware down. This repeated several times. They did this all with the look of boredom all over their faces. The girls did not look at each other, they observed as people entered convo and walked past them. They both looked like they were daydreaming. The girls' body language was very relaxed, one girl even had her leg folded under her and on the seat. They did not sit up straight, but were slightly hunched over their food. Towards the end of my observation, the girls started to make conversation and they wiped the bored looks off their faces and began to interact with one another. They only began to talk after they were done eating their food.

Watching Someone Eat

I watched a guy in convo while he ate his lunch. He was eating a very cheesy piece of pizza. He would go to take a bite and have to use his other hand in order to tear the cheese from the rest of the slice of pizza. He was a eating a ton of food! He had at least two pieces of pizza and two tuna melts. I could not see what else was on his plate. He also had a cup of chocolate milk and a cup of of red Powerade to drink. He sat at the table for a few minutes by himself, but then he was joined by two friends. When he was eating his pizza, he kept switching the slice between his two hands. He would take a few bites holding it in his right hand and then he switched to holding the pizza in his left hand. The three guys had minimal conversation but seemed happy to see each other and be eating with one another. He kept his mouth closed and chewed awhile before taking another bite. He never put his pizza or sandwiches down between bites. After most bites, he would lick his lips. He rested both of his arms on the table. He kept leaning back to talk to the guys at another table. The funniest part of watching him was when he found something in his drink. He solely focused on fishing out the object from his drink. Once finally removing the object he took a drink and moved onto eating his tuna melts.

Seeing and Listening

I decided to do the seeing part of this assignment in convo. I noticed some pretty funny things that I would have most likely missed had I not been paying close attention. For example, I saw one girl eating by herself and I noticed that instead of just lounging or relaxing because she was by herself she was sitting up very straight and being very careful with her food and just being extremely proper. Then before she left, I watched her take an entire sandwich and wrap it up in a cloth napkin and place it in a Tupperware container so she could take it with her. It was really funny to watch and I would have completely missed it had I not been doing this assignment. I chose not to do the listening part while I was in convo because all I kept hearing was the radio and I would start singing along to the music and not notice any other sounds that were going on. So, I went to the Clayton lobby and noticed lots of different sounds. It's funny because I'm in that lobby every day and haven't really paid attention to al of the different sounds there are. For example, I heard birds chirping outside as well as cars driving past and I could here random conversations from the people walking by. I could hear the air coming from the vents and there was almost a constant beeping coming from the elevator. It's honestly like that thing never stops, there is always someone getting on or off it, and then there's always the voice of the asy that speaks in the elevator. I must have heard "floor one, main lobby" about a dozen times. Overall, I liked this assignment, I think it's pretty cool to take a second to look around and notice all the little things that you don't usually pay any attention to. It's pretty intersting and I thought very entertaining.

Watching & Listening

The people-watching and listening assignments were mainly useful to me as a way to notice more deeply the things that are always going on around me. I watched people walk around in convo for a while, and it is nothing that I wouldn't see any other day in my periphery or just among my friends, but when you actually look closely at someone, you notice subtleties like gait, gestures, and how they look when they speak to people. I saw an awkwardly-walking boy take his tray back flanked by two short friends, and looked at their expressions (blank) and I watched the other people at my table for a while (I must have looked wierd); some sat quietly but calmly (different than acting class) and some talked, animated, barely noticing that they were eating food at the same time.
I listened by my window facing the quad during a quiet time of the day, hearing people walking outside, the wind after I turned my fan off, and sounds of televisions and people in the hallway, both of which sound much different than if you are in the same room. It was interesting to me how much sensory information is ignored so easily when I am not paying attention.